Posted by jammin1 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:22 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Full reason???? STUPIDITY!!!!! Shooting the guy doesn't change her mind about you or him.

Posted by JunkyardDawg (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:40 a.m. (Suggest removal)

You're right about that jammin.

Like the song goes...I can't make you love me if you don't, I can't make your heart feel something it won't.

If they don't love you, let them go...just like buses...another one will be coming around the bend...don't bang your head against the wall.

Posted by jammin1 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:48 a.m. (Suggest removal)

That's right . Tell it like it is.

Posted by draworks1 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 5:59 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Right on jammin & JunkyardDawg. The best way to get over a old love is with a new love. Another song that comes to my mind is Love Hurts. No pun intended.

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 7:11 a.m. (Suggest removal)

hahha... are we all singing this morning?? hahaha... go on then jam on!! haha!

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 8:23 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Hold on loosely......but don't let go......if you cling too tightly.........your gonna lose it,
your gonna lose controllllllll.

Posted by kpage (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 8:29 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Angie...Aaaannngie...we can't say we never tried.

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 8:34 a.m. (Suggest removal)

All I can say is it looks like someone knew what they were talking about yesterday. Maybe they even know who the "real" shooter is since they knew he had turned himself in.

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 8:42 a.m. (Suggest removal)

true mommyof3. Most likely they knew the people involved. Don't ya think?

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 8:44 a.m. (Suggest removal)

most definately!

Posted by iluvntz (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:16 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Lord knows i wish i did know the facts of how this thing happened but unfortunatly i dont. Yes i do know the people involved but as for the shooter it could have been McKinley and may have not been him the truth will come to the light.

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:20 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I certainly would not turn myself in if I were innocent. A trip to the police station to explain where I was etc... perhaps to clear my name, but that would be it. Unless he didn't have an alibi, then he has to prove it. But it will all come out in the wash.... it's usually a long wash though.

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:21 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Sorry I don't have a song to contribute. Just so you all know... None come to mind.... except the Aaron Tippin song, "Kiss This" I wore it out during my divorce. lol

Posted by iluvntz (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:24 a.m. (Suggest removal)

If someone is shot and they say a persons name automatically they put a warrent out for your arrest he could have easily hid out or left town instead he went and turned his self in.

Posted by kpage (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:28 a.m. (Suggest removal)

HaHaHa mwhittington! I love my mornings with you! All of you! I was singing "Bye Bye Love, I'll see ya later, got a lead foot down on my accelerator, with my rear view mirror torn off...I ain't never lookin' back...and that's a fact".

How did we get to this when the story was about McKinley turning himself in? Of course he did it! What fool would turn himself in and admit his crime when he is innocent?

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:32 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I am proud that he did. I would of too. But if after talking to the cops if I had NOTHING to do with it and could verify that, then they have no grounds to hold you. You can't just say so and so shot me and they go to jail till court. That's why they are required to have this little thing called "evidence".

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:35 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I enjoy them too, kpage. And I think we got on the songs because this was all over "LOVE". (said with a snarl, lol) That was one of my songs to, fyi and I have NEVER looked back....

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:45 a.m. (Suggest removal)

well, i think ya'll are doing just what needs to be done! SING! HAHA! heck way not... it gets people in a good mood! hehe!

Posted by iluvntz (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 9:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I think its like this and this is my opinion Adrian Brown told police officers McKinley Brady did it so they have McKinley in jail trying to get him to confess to it. Thats the only person they are focused on they see it like this the victim said he did it so thats what happened. I mean its just to much violence in Natchez people getting shot, beaten somebody needs to come up with a solution to keep this crime rate down.

Posted by firered (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 10:04 a.m. (Suggest removal)

This is to iluvntz... Its naive people like you that don't help natchez with the crime rate. You don't wanna believe that someone you know would actually hurt someone else. Nothing you have said about any of this has made sense. Why on earth would the victim say that Brady did it if he did not do it? You keep saying this but give me a legitimate reason as to why anyone should believe otherwise. If you know something you need to let the NPD know so they can do their job which it seems you are claiming they are not. Why would they have any other reason to not focus on their PRIME SUSPECT?

Oh and thank you guys for all the singing to lighten the mood! I am enjoying it so please encore encore!

Posted by iluvntz (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 10:22 a.m. (Suggest removal)

You could call me naive or whatever i could careless im gonna still get up and go to work and keep living. Im intitled to my opinion just like everyone else and if i dont believe he did it i just dont i cant change how i feel because i know its always 2 sides to every story. And its like you are saying everything i said just trying to turn it around.

Posted by firered (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 10:35 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Thank you for proving my point.

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 10:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

LOL

Posted by kpage (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 10:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

It's the same old story...same old song and dance, my friend.

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 11:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I Like the singing...Mama tried to raise me better but her pleading I denied..that leaves only me to blame cause Mama tried.....I turned 21 in prison doing life without parole no one could stir me right but mama tried...mama tried..that leaves only me to blame cause mama tried..

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 11:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

codysmom what song is that?? it rings true to soo many..

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 11:54 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Old country song.... "mama tried" isn't it codysmom? Can't remember who sang it. are you cody mcjohnsons mom?

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 11:56 a.m. (Suggest removal)

i'm going to have to look that one up... don't think i have heard it...

Posted by boredwithstupidity (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at noon (Suggest removal)

"Merle Haggard, the country music star who really did turn 21 in prison, just like it says in one of his songs...."

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:04 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Mama Tried - Merle Haggard (An oldie) Ive sang it way too many times with Cody. I quess he will never learn. Now Im singing, "Sing me back home" ..well the prisoner..told the warden...won't you..sing me back home before I die...he is waiting to go do his time..i know it will be a long, long time..he will have a long time to think about what he did.
Sometimes even when they do time..he did two seperate one year juvenile boot camp terms..they still don't learn..He must like prison. It makes me ill. Off the rest of the day..will tune in tomorrow..in closing..my last tune...my mama told me.....my only son...be a simpllllllle...kind of man. Won't you do this for me son..if you can....

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:10 p.m. (Suggest removal)

codysmom... you sound as though you taught your son everything you could, just as a good parent would do.. it was left up to him then to go with it as he wanted.. and that's all a parent really can do... keep your head up darlin.. everything happens for a reason, and all you can do is live one day at the time...

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:14 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Yes, Cody Mc's mom, I haven't been here since all the publicity about Cody...I often read but today I felt like talking..with no one to talk to..Or should I say singing..The sting is not gone..His fate is worse than death..he must live with his wrong. Unfortunately, so many others must live with it, such as I, his entire family, and most of all..the families of his lost friends..how many brothers fell victim to the streets...rest in peace young brothers something...something...something...

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

you feel like talking, singing, then we will i feel like listening.. so sing till your face is blue :) i'm jamming right along with you!!!

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:19 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Going home...thanks for listening...upside of the day...I didn't have to sing outloud...(applause) haha. Bye!!!

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:23 p.m. (Suggest removal)

CodysMom-I have to tell you I can only try to imagine the pain you and yours are going thru! I pray for each and everyone involved in that whole incident daily. None of you have an easy road ahead and I feel that Kudos go to you for standing by Cody. And you are right--"Mama tried" is probably the best song that anyone could have posted on here today!

Posted by jammin1 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:28 p.m. (Suggest removal)

CodysMom, no can say they know how you feel, I know I can't. Stay strong you were a good Mom, correction, ARE a good mom. NO matter what you child does, he is still your baby. That will not change. God loves you. You can always talk to him.If that is not enough then please talk to you preacher or even a counselor. Don't try to handle this alone.

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:38 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I thought I remembered you from then. I am so glad you came back. Hope to see you around more often. Been wanting to ask how all that was going. Havent read anything about it in a long while. I knew the girl, Kristin's father's side of the family. I have been praying for you all and the youth in our country. Especially my own two children. None are invincable.

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 12:50 p.m. (Suggest removal)

there you go codysmom... your not alone.. you shouldn't feel as you are.. please keep up with your comments...

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 2:12 p.m. (Suggest removal)

All CodysMom has to do is log on! I know three of us are here most days Mon-Fri!

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 3:03 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Lol mommyof3. true true

Posted by firered (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 3:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I was gonna post this on the page about the bomb threats but it got deleted right when I was writing it... So i decided to put it here.

All this talk is so depressing... Y'all have me scared to ever bring kids into this world. I'm already worried enough about how good of a parent I will be. But y'all are all so right. Things aren't the same anymore as they used to be. It's a scary world out there and it just seems to be getting worse. But what can we do?

Posted by ijohnson (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 3:57 p.m. (Suggest removal)

PRAY!!!! Pray for a better day!

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 3:58 p.m. (Suggest removal)

firered. When I was in school nearly 20 years ago, I had the same thoughts you have, THEN. It never changes, good people with good intentions of being good parents, always worry. Things then were not nearly like they are now. I even said I would never bring a child into this rotten world.... But I did. I brought two into it. Because I finally was mature enough to realize that no matter what happened I could not rob myself of the wonders of having a child. The good and the bad... After much thinking, yes both of mine where planned, I decided that the joys far out weighed any bad that may possible come. So far, I was right. Even with all the bad. Horrible abusive marriage. Everything happens for a reason. I am still glad I had them.

Posted by ijohnson (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 3:58 p.m. (Suggest removal)

firedred, I went back in search of the page on the Ferriday bomb threat and it was gone!!! I wonder why???

Posted by ijohnson (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:10 p.m. (Suggest removal)

mwwhittington, I have two children that were planned and I can't imagine life without them. I didn't plan to be divorced, though, raising these children alone. It gets very hard sometimes being the only one there to handle everything.

I grew up with both of my parents in the household and actively involved in our lives. Our childhood was filled with adventure and fun, happy memories!! I feel so sorry for my children because they really won't get to experience the freedom we felt and had growing up.

For instance, because of the state of our nation and communities, our small children can't safely play outside because they may get abducted, molested and killed. Our children can't go to school and feel safe because some fool may start shooting in the school or decide to blow the place up one day! Not to mention the ever present threat from terrorists who could do God knows what at any given moment. This is so stressful for us, the parents, who love our children and want to always keep them safe but are powerless, to a great extent, to do so, these days.

Being that it's October, I think about Halloween and fall celebrations. Halloween used to be s-o-o-o much fun when I was growing up. EVERYBODY in my neigborhood went "trick-or-treating" -- from the youngest to the teenage boys, even the "tough" dudes in the neigborhood put on a mask and ran house to house! Nobody got robbed, raped or had their candy snatched!! All the adults in the area loved it and enjoyed our treat-or-treat runs.

We had bags FULL of candy that we ate for days. We didn't fear being poisoned or biting into a razor-blade laden apple. Unfortunately, our children can't experience the extent of that joy. Even though we live in a very nice and relatively safe neigborhood now, I don't trust people. With all this crazy stuff going on and so many evil acts being committed by people, you can't be too careful. So, we go to some neighbors on our block that we know pretty well or I take them to the nearest mall that's sponsoring a "trick-or-treat" party. I try to capture the moment in pictures to find the fun in their costume versus the collection of candy.

Posted by destiny (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:13 p.m. (Suggest removal)

firered, just be determined to be a good parent, watch over your children, keep them safe from all harm, give them plenty of love and plenty of your time, feed them good food when their hungry, nurse them when they are sick, be a parent, not a friend, they will have plenty of those if you do all the above. Get them and yourself into a good Bible based church and worship WITH them. God will show you the rest. Bless you.

Posted by ijohnson (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:19 p.m. (Suggest removal)

destiny, you're RIGHT ON THE MONEY!! That's exactly what firered and anyone else pondering the same thoughts have to do. SO WELL SAID!!!

Posted by ijohnson (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:33 p.m. (Suggest removal)

firered, I remember when I first got married, my mother would ask me when we were going to start a family. I would say, "When I save up some extra money, get a promotion, get another degree, etc." Then, she would say, "If you wait until you have enough money, time, etc. then, you'll never have children." Just do it, the money and everything else you need will come -- God will supply all that you need." And He has.

Posted by freedom42 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:46 p.m. (Suggest removal)

God does have a way of doing that doesn't He? I have never really needed anything but it was supplied. Many times I have had no idea how it would be supplied either! But over many years I have learned never to doubt that we will be taken care of by Him.

Posted by 1legup (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:55 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I have read a lot of these comments and I've wanted to write several times, but didn't. I just cannot let it go without comment when I hear all the talk about what a good mother CodysMom is. I'm sure some of you do not know CodysMom personally and are just trying to make her feel better, but the truth is a lot of Cody's problems are a direct result of her addictions. Also if she had not hid all the things that he did as a child perhaps he would have learned that actions have consequences. Oh - but how could she teach him when she has gotten away with so many things herself. She can talk the talk though - so I guess that's what gets her through. I am just so sorry that CodysMom is Cody's mom. Perhaps he would not be in the situation that he is in now, and perhaps those other people would still be alive.

Posted by ijohnson (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 4:58 p.m. (Suggest removal)

freedom42, there were some days when I didn't have two nickels to rub together but the Lord made a way! We never went hungry or without clothing and shelter. He will always supply our need. I often say, "He may not be there when I want Him, but He's right on time!" And, He has been . . . He hasn't failed me yet.

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 5:26 p.m. (Suggest removal)

regardless to what addictions and what past codysmom had, cody was grown.. he knew right from wrong.. i'm sorry but you can't throw that my parents are the cause of my mess ups all your life.. i tried and it got me no where or did nothing for me... i still think that she taught cody the best way she may of knew how and it was up to him in the end to go with it how he chose... blame codysmom for whatever.. does that mean you blame the other parents for the decisions their kids made that night? if soo then something is really wrong... i know wiley's mom and she is a GREAT WOMAN! AND HIS SISTER IS AMAZING ALSO.. cody may have been driving that night true.. but the other chose to get in that vehicle with him... my heart hurts just thinking about what may or may not of happen that night... it's even kind of hard to breathe... MAY GOD BE WITH EVERYONE THAT HAS INVOLVEMENT WITH THAT TRAGIC NIGHT... AND MAY THE ONES THAT LOST THEIR LIFE THAT NIGHT R.I.P.....

Posted by stateofnatchez (anonymous) on October 11, 2007 at 8:02 p.m. (Suggest removal)

And the world just keeps on turnin'.................

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 9:15 a.m. (Suggest removal)

true true

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 9:30 a.m. (Suggest removal)

1legup, could you possibly be an EX? If Cody is like he is because of me, how do you explain my daughter who I also raised who graduated high school and college with honors, doesnt use drugs, smoke, or steal or lie? A complete opposite of Cody. For your information, although you seem to know it all, I spent more time trying to make Cody feel as loved as his perfect sister because she was always so good he had a rilvary trying to compete with her..maybe as a result I spoiled him and it backfired but that boy was in cubscouts and I slept on the ground 4 years in a row at the big camp in Monroe for Mom & Me campout..his father..didnt go to one camp out with him for Dad & The Lad, I had him in Vidalia Dixie Youth from T-Ball all the up, he played Natchez Youth Basketball and raced BMX bikes at Morgantown and we went to races out of town. My two children and my two stepchildren (in case you want to compare their lives to me too) went as a family to Six Flags over Georgia every year 4 years in a row on family vacation. I have no criminal record and hold a management job in a well known company..but poor Cody is a reflection of me? Cody chose his path regardless of the consequenses I warned him about the very night he left..and I gave him a graphic blow by blow description of those consequences without being ugly..and he didn't listen, thats why he will go to prison and thats why what happened did. But I love him regardless and always will. I quess you raised your children better. Maybe you think you are better than me? Lets hope your kids are perfect so noone blames you. But to buttercup and the others who were compassionate and forgiving..I can see Christ shining through you directly upon me..thank goodness our Christ is a loving, compassionate, forgiving God unlike 1legup who choses to judge. Yea, Id say you were an EX or an EXWIFE. If so, and you know who you are..you found the key I threw away..and lets not blame what Cody has ever done on his father or his family..it would just be wrong!!!!!

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 11:29 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I believe CodysMom has begun to heal a tiny bit. She sounds strong, sure, and able to start healing. She can hold her own. lol

Posted by Peace007 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 11:56 a.m. (Suggest removal)

CodysMom, kids today have many influences...so no, you can't and shouldn't accept total responsibility for his behavior. You are correct to turn the spot light around to the absent dad, as many times, the mother (left with the children to raise) will be blamed, when in reality it is the missing father figure that will cause many boys to misbehave. Many times, boys will displace their anger for the lack of attention shown to them by their absent father towards their mother. You are a very strong woman. Do not allow 1legup to get you down. I'm sure you are going through a terrible time facing Cody's future, and I have no idea what is going on with him at this time. Keep your chin up and know that many people care about you. And remember that God is near to those whose heart is breaking.

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 12:20 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Thank you all very much. Believe me, I have blamed myself over and over. I am not perfect, but who is? And everything I wrote above has went through my head many times trying to deal with the guilt I thought was mine. But I did everything I could to be a good mother and it wasn't always easy. I tried to be there for Cody and love him unconditionally thinking it would make a difference. He has a big heart and I know it is breaking as is mine. How easy for 1legup to blame me maybe they are making their self feel better. I know the truth. I have always worked, provided a roof over my kids heads, food on the table, clothing much better than I ever wore so they wouldn't be picked on at school, extracurricular activities, but most importantly love. Does 1legup blame God for Adam & Eve's violation of God's rules in the Garden of Eden? Everything was perfect, everything provided, yet they chose to break the one rule he set forth...even wonderful perfect parents have children who do horrible things..where did they go wrong 1legup? 1legup..what kind of name is that anyway sounds nasty. Hypocrite!!!

Posted by dottie (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 12:23 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I hate to ask, but will some one please tell me the
meaning of LOL? Thanks.

Posted by sayitloud (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 12:46 p.m. (Suggest removal)

LAUGH OUT LOUD!

Posted by jammin1 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 12:59 p.m. (Suggest removal)

CodysMom, easy hon, don't give 'em the satisfaction of raising your blood pressure. I knew your son and his friends. They all made their own choises about how they lived their life. My heart aches for all of you. And you still love your children with the same unconditional love that the Father has for each and everyone of us. dottie, lol is laugh out loud

Posted by c_8512 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 1:11 p.m. (Suggest removal)

CodysMom, you sound like you did all the right things for Cody, and part of being a good parent sometimes means giving them enough space to make mistakes, and allowing them to face the consequences of their mistakes. This is called tough love, and I personally know a dozen or more parents who have cried over the guilty feelings of "failing a child gone wrong." It is important for you to let Cody know that you love him without bound, and that you will never stop loving him regardless of the choices he has made in the past and the choices he makes in the future. Many of these parents I mentioned above never stopped loving their children, and many of these children, not all, have straightened up after the tough love made them realize their situation. Please be strong for yourself, and especially for Cody.

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 1:51 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Thanks! I feel better now...Im done bashing 1legup. We, as children of God, are all a work in progress. I am no exception. I try to face lifes challenges, today, learning from my past mistakes and make better choices as a result. Hopefully, one day although it may me 10 or more years down the road, my son will have learned from his and make better choices too. He is only 21..when he is 41..he could be a changed human being. It may take 20 years in Parchman to do it and God's help. It is God's plan. And yes I can talk the talk, but God knows my heart, he will judge me when it really counts and thats good enough for me. :) :)

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 1:56 p.m. (Suggest removal)

AMEN

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 2:27 p.m. (Suggest removal)

You have said all that could be said at this point mwhittington! "AMEN".

Keep your head up CodysMom. You are a very strong woman. I have the highest respect for you. You have supported Cody through all of this and that is all you can do for in as a parent now. Prayer and support. Give him those and it will carry him a very long way.

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 2:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Sorry about the grammar and computer errors in the above post. I guess I can blame it on the computer. LOL! :)

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 2:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

ok.. since no one else is going to ask.. :) i will, what is the latest on codys situation? i mean not trying to offend you in any means.. and if i'm out of my way then please tell me, put me in my place.. i read were you said he will be spending a long time in prison?

Posted by kpage (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 2:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Smile real big for me, CodysMom. Evil people spew evil from their lips. Just don 't let it get on you. You sound strong and smart so I know you are going to be alright. God bless you and yours. Never forget, miracles happen.

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 2:46 p.m. (Suggest removal)

He is out of 40,000 bond for charges of aggravated assault, and DUI x3 counts. His blood alcohol level was .09 which is one point over the legal limit enough to send it to the grand jury. DUI with death or bodily injury occurring carries a sentence of 5 to 25 years. I fear the worse. Yet until he realizes he does have to answer for his actions..and apparently the two prior one year terms he served as a juvenile didn't phase him..he may continue to make bad choices. So, he did go to jail and was punished for breaking laws before he became an adult but he must of thought it was a cake walk. This time its different. This time it is very serious. He will probably feel better when he gets there. He will be serving his punishment. And I will still write him, visit him, and take him whatever I can because he is my son. I still fuss at him, warn him, and often beg him not to do anything to get into any more trouble before he has to go and am trying to prepare him for what is to come. And myself. My family has paid for his attorney. His father and their family refused any assistance and said he belongs in jail. I just don't want him to have to spend the rest of his life there and without a good lawyer..he very well could.

Posted by mommyof3 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 2:52 p.m. (Suggest removal)

You all will remain in our prayers. I am sure everyone on here agrees witht that one statement.

Posted by mwhittington (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 3:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

you would be right, mommyof3

Posted by buttercup26 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 3:57 p.m. (Suggest removal)

amen.. GOD is with you codysmom and your family just remember that and you will all get through this....

Posted by CodysMom (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 4:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)

And having support from you all certainly is wonderful!! I love reading your opinions and it gets hairy sometimes on issues that hit close to home when people start arguing their points and then others jump in and defend them like you have me. Total strangers. So Awesome. Enough about me, and talk of my addictions, I'd like to end my day before retiring for the weekend, back to the article at hand some 72 hours and 72 posts later we drifted from that a bit but I'd like to finish by singing (like we were happily before I got bashed) with a tune for the unfortunate fellow who will hopefully go to prison for intentional infliction of harm by shooting that other unfortunate fellow over a woman, and it goes like this: (Sing along) The lights are on......but you're not home....your mind...is not your own......your heart sweats....your body shakes....another kiss....is what it takes...You can't eat..You can't sleep...There's not doubt..YOU'RE IN DEEP...Oh you like to think that you're immune to the stuff...Oh yea....its closer to the truth...you're gonna have to face it...YOU'RE ADDICTED TO LOVE!!! (SOL) Singing Out Loud (for Dottie) Have a great weekend!! Will tune in Monday hopefully no new bad news and no bashers (Remember if you're still there they got my back)!! Im Outta here & I'm still glad....I'm CodysMom :) :) :)

Posted by freedom42 (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 5:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

CodysMom, I too have one son who I prayed over constantly, begged to do the right things, not to quit school, etc. He was never in quite the trouble Cody has apparently been in, and I am thankful for that. What changed him was a young woman who he fell in love with who would not put up with the drinking, smoking, etc. I know that he had smoked mj occassionaly but I don't think he ever did anything hard. Anyway, he got his GED, went to college by way of the National Guard, went to Iraq and came back in one piece Thank God, to marry this girl. We love her to death and thank God every day for his salvation of my son. I hope and pray for Cody, that even though his road may be harder, he will be turned around and make you proud of him. I think we are prouder of our kids when they go through such horrible struggles, most of them caused by their own bad decisions, and finally end up ok. Only Cody can make that decision. Just keep praying, when it comes down to it, that's all we can do.

Posted by dottie (anonymous) on October 12, 2007 at 6:30 p.m. (Suggest removal)

God bless you wonderful people for supporting CodysMom. Your comments made my heart glad and
afforded me a good cry.

And thanks to you, I now know the meaning of
LOL and SOL. You folks are the greatest.