Posted by Peace007 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 12:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

WOW.

Posted by ghost (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 1:09 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

Posted by ntzmom (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 1:16 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Crazy stuff.
I sure hope this woman doesnt forgive him and take him back when he gets out of jail.

Posted by NtzMom55 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 1:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Stupidity and a total lack of respect for others in the vacinity. I have no mercy for such a selfish act carried out in a very public place and hope the judicial system will feel the same way.

Posted by wonderingirl (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 2:14 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Myers was verbally abusing one woman and physically abused 2 other women in the same incident. I hope every women in the area makes a mental note of this and avoids him at all cost. He obviously has a problem.

Posted by NatchezEnema (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 6:04 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Trash!

Posted by adamstanton (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 6:43 a.m. (Suggest removal)

they never mentioned the prices, but it must be one expensive deli

Posted by goodwitch2008 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 7:22 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Oh wow that's...insane.

Posted by uneekofficerbrod (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 7:24 a.m. (Suggest removal)

why is the man with her if he didnt want to support her in the first place?

Posted by Teach4Peace (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 8:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Ugh, that's exactly what I wanted to know, and also, why stay with someone who does not want to support you. She is much better off without this loser! If someone can fight your father, treat you like crap in public or private, after a while of this, I can no longer blame the abuser. She needs to roll on out! Next time, may be worse.

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 8:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Trailer Park Trash......Absolutely...

Posted by inocentbystandr (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 8:12 a.m. (Suggest removal)

In all my years of going to bars and such places, I have always wondered why girls always try to break up a fight between guys. Nothing good ever comes of it. They just end up getting hurt. Even though the 2 guys should not have been fighting, it was the women's own fault for getting hurt. Put yourself in a man's position and expect to get treated like a man. I am not condoning any of this, just stating that these two women were hurt because of their own desire to get involved in someone elses business.

Posted by NatchezHighGraduate1993 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 8:35 a.m. (Suggest removal)

The story is written with such a "gossip" undertone, it is hard to understand. None-the-less, I have to agree with REDUSMFAN.

Posted by FamilyofGod (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 8:39 a.m. (Suggest removal)

A healthy public lashing on the courthouse steps would no doubt benefit this gentleman greatly, but since that is not to be done, Lash him here!

Public exposure and comment on this type of behavior is not without theraputic value.

What a JERK!

Posted by drawpaintsing (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 9:20 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Can everyone say, "ANGER MANAGEMENT"?

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 9:28 a.m. (Suggest removal)

This guy is a piece of crap. I do not know him and do not want to know him. He is TRASH and nothing more. Only trash would speak to a woman this way. To do it in public just tells what kind of real trash he is. He has no respect for himself and no respect for anyone else around him. If he had any respect for anyone, he would not let it go this far anywhere, much less in public where other innocent people can and did get injured.

This is just a way to show how far our society has gone down hill the last 30 years. Years ago, if he had hollered at a woman in public like that, any and every self respecting male in the area would have put their foot in his butt and shown him the way out of the door.

We need to get back to basics in this country and teach and SHOW EACH OTHER respect so our children will grow up and know what is expected. And when we witness disrespect in public, we should point out to our children that this is not accepted and show the disrespectful person the door.

WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!! This is a mirror to our society. I do not like the way it looks, do you? Lets start TODAY teaching our next generation what was common in the last generation, self respect and respect for others around them.

Posted by frogprincenessntz (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 9:31 a.m. (Suggest removal)

"...Dont try to point the finger and the finger in the mirror will not point back at you.

On Chase leads to bust"

Look out REDUSMFAN, your bigotry slip is showing. You posted the above sentence on another story and then you come on here and bad mouth ALL PEOPLE living in trailer parks and the address in the story indicates that the man, in all probability, lives in a house. Check your attitude!

Posted by frogprincenessntz (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 9:41 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I was typing my post when you last posted, so it is sad that you understand some parts of acceptable behavior, but fail to see that by calling all people in trailer parks trash, you are showing a very biased attitude. Most of the people who live in trailer parks work for a living. If they did not, they would be given a house to live in. Yes, some of the people who live in trailer parks could be called trash, just as some of the people who live in houses can. That in no way makes all the people, in the trailer park, trash. You need to weigh your remarks for basic truth.

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:28 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Frog, I use the term trailer park trash too loosely. I apologize. He may live in a house, but he is still trash. Period. I mean it as a mirror to our society. TPT is a term that my friends and I use to describe the person, not the place they live. It is a state of mind. I used to live in a trailer park, many years ago after a nasty divorce. I learned what was meant by that term for about 1 year. Then my friends and I used it to describe the person that lived next door to me. he would be trash if he lived in a penthouse in New York.

My resounding apology to your and yours.

Posted by Hardcorps (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:34 a.m. (Suggest removal)

So I guess they won't be coming over this ofternune for tea and crumpets.

Poll Question.
Class?
1. Little
2. Or none

Posted by kpage (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:35 a.m. (Suggest removal)

When I read this story, my mouth dropped down to the ground! The exact thing happened to me, except unfortunately, my daddy didn't pull up just in time, and the lady at the deli counter was mad at me for making her bag up an item and then have to put it back. I feel so bad for this girl. I hope this is her wake-up call. I hope nobody bails this trashy boy out of jail. Let him rot.

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:37 a.m. (Suggest removal)

thugs, thugs, thugs. must be white folks not many rude comments on this one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:37 a.m. (Suggest removal)

none...he exudes the behaviorial characteristics of pure trash. He is a slimy gutter garbage credent.

Hardcorps, was the tea and crumpets going to be served on the veranda after noon bridge was completed around 2:30? My invitation was not clear....lol...

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:42 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Stallion, we have called everything we can without the sensoring police deleting us...lol...I do not care what color this crap is...it all looks the same in the septic tank which is exactly where he crawled out of...

Posted by firered (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:43 a.m. (Suggest removal)

hmm... I don't know if he is black or white or red or green. I have no clue because I do not know him. But regardless to his color he is still gutter scum regurgitated from the sewer in my eyes!

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:45 a.m. (Suggest removal)

i agree!!!!!!!!!!!! just happen to be from ferriday and live in dallas, but read everyday!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Hardcorps (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:47 a.m. (Suggest removal)

msblackstallion,
If the least insinuation that someone of color is going to read something on here that makes their bottom lip pooch out it is quickly censored. Trash comes in all flavors.

Yes redusmfan the veranda had been cleaned up after the storm and the bridge game was to have ended about 1430.

mrwhitestudhoss

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Stallion, many of us do not live in Natchez or the Miss-Lou anymore but we read it everyday to see what is going on in our hometown area. I was down there last Friday for a while dealing with some legal matters leftover from my dads death. It seems to be getting a little better than it was a few years ago. I hope it continues to recover.

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:53 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Good hardcorps, i will see you at 1430 hours and I will bring the needed firewater. lol...Have a wonderful afternoon.

Posted by drawpaintsing (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:59 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Great, apology, Red. We all slip up and say things out of the "norm" sometimes. Sorry about your dad. I hope everything goes well. Have a blessed day.

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:04 a.m. (Suggest removal)

maybe we can hook up mr. whitestudhoss

Posted by firered (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:06 a.m. (Suggest removal)

technically a stallion is a male.. Am i correct? Sorry, I just had to ask...

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:07 a.m. (Suggest removal)

you must be over 40!!!!!!!!!!! so simple.

Posted by kpage (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:14 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Hardcorps and Red...I was contemplating preparing a delightful plate of scones this aftahnoon. Shall I invite myself? (Tee Hee Hee). And I have some FABulous Earl Grey to contribute to our tete a tete. Forgive me for being so intrusive...I just LOOOVE a good aftahnoon social!

mrwhitestudhoss...you giving free rides, big daddy?

Posted by vidalia1 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:18 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Just checking in.......Hello everyone....

Posted by luzichick (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:19 a.m. (Suggest removal)

After reading these comments, I am in amazement. First, inocentbystandr, if it weren't for people like this who are willing to risk their own safety to help others, this man would still be out there and not in jail. Yes, from an intellectual point of view, getting in the fray wasn't the smartest thing to do if their first concern was their own safety, but apparently it wasn't. They obviously had more concern for this woman and the man with whom the guy was fighting. It's extremely likely that this woman is being abused not only verbally, but physically in the privacy of their own home.

That brings me to Teach4Peace's comment: "...after a while of this, I can no longer blame the abuser." Yes, YOU CAN ALWAYS BLAME THE ABUSER! This woman is probably afraid for her life if she leaves Myers. After everything that has been learned and publicized about women in these situations, it amazes me that people can still think that getting out is a simple thing to do. Abusers often threaten to find these women and kill or hurt them and/or their children (and who knows if they have children and, if so, if he's abused them, too) -- and sometimes they do follow through on that threat. Even if they don't that threat is very real to these women and they often can't see a real way out.

I'm thankful to have never been in a physically abusive relationship, but I can certainly sympathize with what women like this go through, if not empathize with them. Shame on you two for making uneducated comments like that.

Posted by overthehill60 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:20 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Wow this Doyle H. Myers sounds like a 1st class piece of trash! It's the daughters fault for her father even having to be in the position to defend her. If Myers has brass knuckles it sounds like he is up to no good & is in a habit of being in fights. I'm glad he didn't have a gun.
The bystander that tried to break the fight up didn't use good judgement, but honestly I don't know what I would have done in her position.
I agree with previous comments, why would the woman even stay with someone that treated her that way in public. If he did it in public imagine what happens on out of the public eye. If she continues to be with him after what he did to her father I'll say she deserves everything dished out to her.
I saw in the police reports his bond was set at $25,000. 10% of that would be an awful lot of money for someone to bail a piece of trash out of jail.
((msblackstallion)) color is not the issue here. This man could be green & he's still trash.

Posted by luzichick (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:30 a.m. (Suggest removal)

overthehill60, check out my post above yours. My comments to Teach4Peace apply to you, too, obviously.

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:39 a.m. (Suggest removal)

i said i agree color is not an issue just pointing out how different the comments are when the shoes are on the other feet!!!!!

Posted by Hardcorps (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

msblackstallion I'm afraid you're real close to the truth. I am as bad as anyone on here about these things. Mostly I just enjoy stirring the pot and then sitting back and watching. No evil or real derogatory intent meant.I sincerely hope things in every category gets better for all of us here in Natchez.

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:53 a.m. (Suggest removal)

i read everyday and thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by drawpaintsing (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 11:54 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Luzichik, well said. I was never in a physically abusive relationship, but my last boyfriend had a drinking problem, and he said a lot of things to me to make me feel very low about myself. It screwed me up mentally and emotionally. I am a very passive and sweet person, and he knew that. He was very arrogant and aggressive, a real @$$hole. I wanted to leave him, but he had me so low that I thought he was the only person I was worthy enough to have. My family didn't understand why I just didn't walk away. Only I knew that. The same man that made me feel good, made me feel like crap. One day, my "light bulb" turned on in my head, and I left him. It's been a year now. I am not afraid of what he can say to me anymore. There is nothing he can to do me. I have someone new who treats me like a queen and protects me. Now I know my worth.

I'm sorry to get into detail about myself, but people don't know what a person is going through. Often men like him prey on sweet and passive women. They know that they are easy to control. It's hard to leave someone. Scars from physical abuse fade away, but scars from mental abuse never leaves. It's problably hard for her to leave him.

Posted by Bobaloo (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 12:02 p.m. (Suggest removal)

trouble in the trailer park.......

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 12:04 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Well I hope this is her " light bulb" and that she never goes back to him. he was about to beat her dad with brass knuckles. This is enough to make me want to cut his wanger off and feed it to him. He does not deserve to be called a man .

Posted by Teach4Peace (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 12:41 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Luzichick, listen up. I in no way condone an abuser, and I think I articulated that pretty well in my initial post, if my point was missed, then nothing I can do about that. But I am so tired of blame games. I have sat back and seen for far too long, people who SUBJECT themselves to ill treatment, on MANY levels, not just here. Grow some and get out. I don't know if you are familiar with Jackson, MS, but I tire of seeing case after case of domestic violence, that ends in DEATH. When a person does these things to a woman, SHE IS NOT LOVED. I thank God everyday as a woman, I have NEVER allowed myself to be disrespected, and there have been times in my life where my self- esteem was not exactly where it needed to be or should have been, but I can swear to this, I LOVED ME MORE THAN I LOVED BEING WITH ANY MAN. I refused to hang around and perhaps have my family reading my obituary.

Please understand, not everyone has the fortitude to get out, but they are well served to grow some and run until they can't run anymore.

Posted by Teach4Peace (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 12:45 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Oh and one more thing, because this idiot blurted out in public, he was tired of supporting her, that's another mistake. Get out, get your own, there is no excuse now-a-days. This is not 1955 when the majority of women were stay at home wives. When husbands did take care of their wives. I would sweep homes, clean cars, whatever I had to do to take care of me, so I wouldn't have some fool talk down to me. When you allow yourself to be supported by a jerk, this is what happens. You don't need a college degree, a GED or high school diploma can get you out of his life. If you don't have that, then that's mistake number two.

Posted by drawpaintsing (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 1:08 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Wow, Teach. Good points as well. I'm glad I got out when I did.

Posted by froggie (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 1:42 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Life is too short to waste one minute on an idiot like this guy! "Tired of supporting you".... he'd be tired of supporting his body after I knocked his legs out from under him! What a jerk.

Posted by froggie (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 1:45 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I have to believe that it's better to take the chance and leave an abuser than to stay. If he beats you, chances are he will kill you eventually anyway (if you stay), so get a protective order and hit the road, ladies! Don't put up with that junk. NOT WORTH IT!!!

Posted by obamayamama (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 2:22 p.m. (Suggest removal)

A jack handle, brass knuckles?? Is this what people are using as weapons nowadays? What about bats, pipes, nun-chuchs? I wonder what else they had to fight with?

Posted by blessed_momma (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 2:30 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I feel so bad for the girl! i have been in an abusive relationship. PRAISE GOD for deliverance! I use to say, NOONE will EVER abuse me! I found myself eating my words. Unless you've been there, you dont understand. My first husband seemed so sweet and loving until we was married! Then I saw his true side. I was so young! I had problems with my mom so I married at a really young age. HE was 4 years older than me. NO, we didnt have kids. THANK GOD! I was mentally , verbally, emotionally, sexually and physically abused. He always made me feel like it was MY fault.He brain washed me! He convinced me that I was so ugly and stupid. That NOONE would EVER want me. I heard it EVERY day. Almost constantly. I was ashamed to tell anyone. I hid the bruises and tried to act happy when anyone was around. I worked and so did he. He spent all his money then would spend mine too. Knowing that I wouldnt let checks bounce, he would bring me a handfull of duplicate checks that he had written off of the ck account AFTER his money was GONE! I pd ALL the bills. Still, for some reason, I was scared that I couldnt make it on my own.( stupid me! I was brainwashed) I worked at a gas station. i was asked out daily by different guys, but I felt like I was being mocked, made fun of; after all, I was soooo ugly! (Thats what I was told daily! ) I was woken up to wooden spoons and other objects being crammed in me and him laughing. I was snatched out of the bed by my ankle in the middle of the night because the sheet on his side came untucked. My hair was pulled out by the fist fulls "because he was dreaming that he was climbing a rope"! He would laugh uncontrolably when I cried. He would put his foot on my back when I was sleeping and kick me out of bed on the floor and tell me, "you are so stupid! You cant even stay in a bed"! He straddled me and held pillows over my face when I slept until I woke up struggling for my life, then gave up. He would then laugh and say. "you are so stupid, you forgot how to breath"! There is so much more to tell. Its just too much to post. After 5 years, God put a wonderful man in my life. PRAISE GOD! God blessed us with 2 beautiful girls. One of our babies is "special". They are my life! My husband is wonderful to me and tells me daily that I am beautiful. He is my best friend. We have been together for 11 years. He is my soul mate. After 5 years of abuse, when I hear the sweet loving words from my precious husband, I always smile and say thank you; but secretly inside, Im wondering, HOW does he see me so beautiful? my self esteem is a secret daily struggle for me. Scars fade, but they never completely go away! God has been so good to me! I truly have a wonderful, beautiful life. Praise be to God! I pray with all my heart that she can pick up the pieces of herself and move on. Run while she can! Never look back! As my Granny use to say, GET WHILE THE GETTIN IS GOOD! God bless you all!

Posted by fire39212 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 2:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

msblackstallion they were lavender....you didn't know....If you read everyday you should know i have warned everyone of these lavender people..They are BAD!!!! I can not believe the race card was thrown in there because they were lavender........

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 2:48 p.m. (Suggest removal)

no, fire39212 they were white, and your point is mute. they are thugs thugs thugs.

Posted by drawpaintsing (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 2:54 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Race isn't the issue here. This is way more serious than that. Maybe this was an eye opener for the girlfriend in the article.

Posted by Teach4Peace (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 3:01 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Drawpaintsing, sadly, the people who need to read this information, probably don't or won't.

Posted by drawpaintsing (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 3:08 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I know, Teach. I was thinking the same thing.

Blessed_momma, you are truly blessed.

Posted by mike8427 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 3:26 p.m. (Suggest removal)

She will be making his bail and picking him up tonight. Some people are nuts.

Posted by overthehill60 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 3:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Since I posted my last comment I have found out who this thug is. This girl went into the relationship fully aware of who & what he was, now what does that say about her. She was not forced to be with him, she wanted to be with him! He has been in a trouble maker since he was a teen. The police I'm sure are very familiar with him. If this does not open her eyes she doesn't think much of herself.

I still agree completely with ((Teach4Peace))!!
I have been married to the best man in the world for over 40 years. If he ever abused me he would be history now. I consider myself a good person, but I have a very strong will to protect myself from verbal or physical abuse.

((blessed_momma)) your Granny was a very wise woman & her advice is true.

Posted by overthehill60 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 3:35 p.m. (Suggest removal)

mike8427
Just read that. So I'm right about the girl. She has NO respect for herself or her father.

Posted by Teach4Peace (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 4:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)

So sad.

Posted by redusmfan (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 4:42 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Trash!!!! That is all you have to say. he is just plain ole trash.

Posted by notabigot (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 4:53 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Be careful what you say. Unless you have been with this kind of man, you don't know what it is like and you don't know what you would do. There are so many things going on in these sind of situations that I could write a "War and Peace" size book. I feel sorry for anyone who is stuck in that situation. There are tons of information available about this subject. Read up on it if you have time and see if you can develop a more compassionate view of it. If you pray for God to teach you compassion, please be a willing student. Otherwise, you may get to experience some things that will teach you compassion through experience. I was once harshly judgemental of things that I knew nothing of, but not anymore. I have in the past, and will in the future give aid and shelter to women in this situation. I learned my lesson the hard way, and I learned it well, and I would not dare to speculate as to what anyone should or shouldn't do.

Posted by msblackstallion (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 4:58 p.m. (Suggest removal)

one day her lightbulb will come on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by notabigot (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 5:09 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Her "lightbulb" may be on. Escaping an abusive man takes a lot. The pathology of an abusive man is complicated. They do things like deprive you of sleep and food so you can't think too well sometimes. They manage to alienate you one way or another from every source of help. They make threats against the people you love to control you. They have a way of figuring out your vulnerabilities and use them to their advantage. It's a real nightmare.

Posted by Hardcorps (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 5:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

mrwhitestudhoss...you giving free rides, big daddy?

Sho nuf. Big daddy trabble cross 50 of dem states and 7 incontinents an ninnyweres I goes li'l cheerin be hollin' 'bout dere go da man. He my papa. Wimmens be swoonin' and stuff. Husbins gettin' mad. Daddies lockin' up dey girl chiles.

Back on topic, Saturday morning canings at center court in the mall would be appropriate for slime like Myers. We could bring the kids and show them what happens when you mistreat a woman, hit an old man, steal my Geritol, break in a house, or what not.
I dun got so mad I'm gonna go eat a nanner. :-(

Posted by Teach4Peace (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 6:24 p.m. (Suggest removal)

You know, you ARE hearing from people who COULD have had this done to them, but chose to LEAVE, BEFORE they got in too deep, then it does become hard. I was dating a guy from Detroit while in college. We had a verbal altercation and during the argument, his hand went up into the air like he was about to try something. I looked him dead in the eye and told him, if he was feeling froggy, to leap. I told him that the sheriff would not be there to arrest him, but would arrest me. I don't bit more know if I could have even beaten that man, probably not, but I do know, he put his hand down, and I walked out of HIS door, NEVER to return.

Why is it when people talk about self-preservation and doing things for yourself and being responsible for yourself (kids), someone has to bring up that people are being judgmental? That deeply disturbs me because that means the POINT of the whole discussion is lost. Women can get out. It's a choice to stay.

Posted by notabigot (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 6:44 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Teach, I don't think I said anyone was being judgemental. I said I was terribly so at one time. blessed-momma had the same experience I did. He was never anything but kind until we were married and it all changed. Didn't see it coming until it was too late. My problem was being way too naive. overthehill60 is the reason I spoke up. People thought I should have known better because he had a reputation. I couldn't see it in him, and that is what he intended. And I don't know if mike8427 is stating fact or just saying that is probably what will happen. This is a painfully personal subject for me, and I am sorry if I offended you.

Posted by blessed_momma (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 7:30 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Im sorry for everyone that has experienced such abuse! God has brought me so far. PRAISE GOD! my ex did deprive me of food and family and friends! I wasnt even allowed to watch tv without being accused of wanting to be with the men on tv!! thank God , I can laugh about the stupidity now. It was totally SICK! When I went anywhere , I was ordered to take my underware off as soon as i walked through the door so he coud "SEE IF I HAD BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE"! REAL SICKO! I wasnt allowed to see my family very often. I had 1 female friend, and I was accused of being a lesbian! The sick junk goes on and on. One night I had enough. He had me against the wall with his hand around my throat. He was cussing me and choking me. He messed up when he called me a B@#^H! NOONE calls me that! I mustered up enough strength and courage, I hit him in the stomach as hard as I could with my fist! He fell to the floor. Curled up in fetal position and started throwing up blood. I ran! His mom drove him to the E.R. He had been accidentally shot through the back about 7 years prior by his brother. When I hit him, I tore loose scar tissue. The rest is HISTORY! God bless you ALL!

Posted by overthehill60 (anonymous) on May 15, 2008 at 10:24 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Three cheers for blessed_momma!!!!

((notabigot)) all I was saying is she knew this man was trouble. If she had stayed away this never would have happened. I'm sure she knew he had brass knuckles.
If she did bail him out all I can say is she made her bed now let her sleep in it. This is the perfect time to pull away from this scum bag. If her father cared enough to fight for her I'm sure he would be there for her.

Posted by overthehill60 (anonymous) on May 27, 2008 at 2:50 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I doubt anyone is still checking this but this thug in the correctional center in Ferriday(Hgy.15). So his girlfrind apparently was not able to bail him out.
I say let him rot in jail!!!!