Stalking is a special problem for several reasons. First, it usually escalates.

A series of harassing telephone calls may lead to direct threats then to violence. The National Council of Stalking advises that a stalker should be considered dangerous if he has a previous criminal record or history of mental instability; if acts of vandalism or destruction have been committed; if he is unable to control his temper; if there has been physical contact between the stalker and the victim; if he lives in isolation; if he has a substance abuse problem; if he has been in a violent domestic relationship; if he has or is familiar with using guns; if threats have been made to the victim; or if the stalker has felt humiliated by the victim.

Most states have enacted specific anti-stalking laws so a stalker can be arrested before the behavior becomes dangerous.

In most areas, a good set of laws against domestic violence and stalking is now available. Such laws frequently distinguish between stalking and aggravated stalking; harassment, which requires a regular pattern of conduct; and telephone harassment, which is easier to prove.

Stalking victims can assist law enforcement and prosecutors by keeping a written record or diary of all incidents of stalking or harassment; including the date, time, location and type of incident; details of reports to law enforcement agencies; and witness information.

Law enforcement professionals advise that all stalkers should be considered extremely dangerous, and victims should avoid any contact or discussion with the stalker — get away from them as soon as possible.

The police should be notified of any incident of stalking or harassment.

It is essential that law enforcement be made aware of the complete history between the stalker and victim. Prior acts should be noted, as these can provide evidence of a “pattern of conduct,” which may affect the charges and penalties available, and may also mean the difference between a misdemeanor and a felony charge.

At SMMHC’s Alcohol & Drug Office we have solutions for problems with substance abuse and anger.

Carolene Britt is a counselor for Southwest Mississippi Mental Health. She can be reached at 200 S. Wall St., Natchez, MS, 39121 or by phone at 601-446-6635.