The Viewfinder: Nurse helps expectant mothers face their fears

Published 12:00 am Tuesday, November 18, 2014

From left, expecting mother Bethany, nurse Patricia Cavin, Bethany’s father James Coley, and fellow expecting mother Sarah Strozier and Kaitlyn Blaney tour the labor and delivery ward at Natchez Regional Medical Center during a childbirth training class Tuesday. (Sam Gause / The Natchez Democrat)

From left, expecting mother Bethany, nurse Patricia Cavin, Bethany’s father James Coley, and fellow expecting mother Sarah Strozier and Kaitlyn Blaney tour the labor and delivery ward at Natchez Regional Medical Center during a childbirth training class Tuesday. (Sam Gause / The Natchez Democrat)

NATCHEZ — Nurse Patricia Cavin knows a thing or two about babies.

In working in the labor and delivery ward at Natchez Regional Medical Center for the past 14 years, she has seen most of what can happen during a pregnancy.

Patricia Cavin, a nurse in the labor and delivery ward, speaks to expecting mothers while Ryland McClung, 13 months, roams the room during a child birth training class at Natchez Regional Medical Center Tuesday.

Patricia Cavin, a nurse in the labor and delivery ward, speaks to expecting mothers while Ryland McClung, 13 months, roams the room during a child birth training class at Natchez Regional Medical Center Tuesday.

That’s why Cavin teaches a child birth training class for expecting mothers.

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“All these first time mamas come in with that deer in the headlights look,” Cavin said. “They don’t know what to expect.”

Cavin’s job is to prepare the expecting mothers for what can be a long and painful, yet, as she describes it, rewarding experience.

“If they prepare and know what is going to happen to their body and to their baby, after nine months, you see them transform,” she said.“You see them mature.”

During the class at the hospital, she covers the different phases of the pregnancy that the women, who were all past 30-weeks, should expect next.

She then details the hospital procedures once a woman arrives, goes into labor, has her child and is released.

“They are all nervous and scared,” Cavin said. “I am just hoping to help out with a little bit of that fear by giving them a person to talk to about all the different things that might happen.”

For Kaitlyn Blaney, an expecting mother in her 31st week, the class was informative. But Blaney can’t help to still be nervous.

Patricia Cavin, a nurse in the labor and deliveries ward, does a demonstration on James Coley while from left, Allison McClellan, expecting mother Kaitlyn Blaney, and Melissa Lees listen during a child birth training class at Natchez Regional Medical Center Tuesday. Coley is attending the class to support his daughter Bethany, not pictured, that is 37-weeks pregnant.

Patricia Cavin, a nurse in the labor and deliveries ward, does a demonstration on James Coley while from left, Allison McClellan, expecting mother Kaitlyn Blaney, and Melissa Lees listen during a child birth training class at Natchez Regional Medical Center Tuesday. Coley is attending the class to support his daughter Bethany, not pictured, that is 37-weeks pregnant.

“She makes the labor part sound so painful,” she said. “But I guess I will figure it out for myself in just 10 weeks.”

The fear does not stop at just the labor for Blaney.

“I’m only 20, it’s not what I was expecting to be getting ready to do at this age, not at all,” she said.

But the fear is cancelled out by the anticipation to meet her child.

“It’s a baby; It’s my baby. I get to raise a baby,” she said. “Yes, I’m scared, but I’m even more excited.”